Reading

What I’m reading

These are books I’m reading, returning to or recommending: some for couples, some for looking after yourself, and some I read as a practitioner.

  • The short descriptions are plain summaries of what each book is about, not reviews.
  • Links go to Readings, Melbourne’s independent bookseller. I don’t earn anything from them.

For couples

  • Come Together

    The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

    Emily Nagoski

    A sex educator draws on research to explain how couples can keep a sexual connection they both enjoy over a long‑term relationship.

    Find it at Readings: Come Together
  • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

    John M. Gottman and Nan Silver

    A research‑based guide that sets out seven principles for strengthening a long‑term relationship, with exercises for couples to do together.

    Find it at Readings: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
  • Magnificent Sex

    Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers

    Peggy J. Kleinplatz and A. Dana Ménard

    Two sex researchers report what people who describe their sex lives as extraordinary have in common, drawn from an in‑depth interview study.

    Find it at Readings: Magnificent Sex
  • Why Women Have Sex

    Cindy M. Meston and David M. Buss

    Two psychologists report on a large research study of the many reasons women give for having sex.

    Find it at Readings: Why Women Have Sex

For yourself

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